Comments on The New Gay: An Open Letter to the Men at My Gym

This is why I throw my clothes on as quickly as po...

2008-01-04T20:52:00.000-05:00

This is why I throw my clothes on as quickly as possible and flee home to shower.

Not to be an asshole, but if you don't want that k...

2008-01-04T19:28:00.000-05:00

Not to be an asshole, but if you don't want that kind of attention at your gym, then go to a different gym. One of the unique perks of being gay is the excitement of discovering a gay gym, or rather a gay locker room. Its like some sort of karmic retribution for all that ass kicking we got in the locker rooms in high school. If guys are sneaking peaks, suck it up, take it as a compliment and use the private shower. If you're so scared of the conditioner, then bring your own. Otherwise stop going to that gym, there's plenty of other gyms out there...most of them cheaper than the fancy ones that attract the gays. But you won't because you admit that you steal glances too but are more "discreet" than everyone else. So who's really to blame?

Parker, Per your comment about straight guys check...

2008-01-04T13:32:00.000-05:00

Parker,

Per your comment about straight guys checking out schlongs. I found this online:

http://www.ubersite.com/m/18982

This post merges quite nicely with Ben's previous post about the soap-dropping.

i like how you admit that you look at cocks in the...

2008-01-04T13:23:00.000-05:00

i like how you admit that you look at cocks in the locker room too. you're just "discrete" about it. dick looking happens in all gyms. at your gym (which i know is also sometimes mine) some (most?) guys hope the dick looking will lead to dick sucking or dick sitting on. but i think even straight guys in "straight" gyms are curious about what the guy next door is packing and how they measure up.